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Flowing Money
Posted June 6th, 2007 by BernitaThis last weekend I had been reading an ebook, "More Money, More Money" by Tom and Penelope Pauley. They teach in order to bring more money into your life you have to flow money. Meaning give some money away, keep it circulating.
Hmmm...I know I'll give some to Julie, Tracy, and Kandace, who have been supportive friends. I went to my PayPal account and saw $1.65. I thought what can I do with that? I happen to notice an unclaimed amount of $37. Yaah Woo, I thought had been lost to cyberspace. Needless to say I reclaimed it and sent $10 to each of them. I felt like a little kid.
Late Monday afternoon I get an email from this woman Patti Vancil, who is the founder of the Seed Money Game at Powerfulintentions. She was letting me know I was one of the BIG WINNERS for that week. YES!!! I'M A MONEY MAGNET. You see as a winner people send you money . I am feeling so abundant and love the idea of shaing it with others.
It goes to show you when you send it out it always comes back to you bigger and better. So, if you think you don't have enough to give thats when you really need to give. Give a dollar, 50 cents whatever, just give. You'll feel so abundant.
Abundant Blessings,
Bernita
Where's Bob When You Need Him?
Posted May 13th, 2007 by BernitaYou're probably wondering: Who is Bob? Well, Bob is who I refer to as my parking Angel. Whenever I am going somewhere that I know parking will be difficult I ask Bob to go ahead and hold me a spot. It works everytime.
On Saturday Darrel and I went to pick up my son from work at the Claremont Hotel. I pulled into a full parking lot to look for him when he calls and say's he's going to be about 15 minutes. We started to drive around not thinking to ask Bob for help.
I saw the valet parking.... No, can't go there. Then I spotted self parking.....Up the steep hill I drove. Dang! no parking spaces. Our windows were rolled down in the car when Darrel says: "Where's Bob when you need him?" Instantly, a voice comes from the side of the car saying," I'm sorry I'll make a space" as a valet attendant runs up along side us to move a car. Darrel and I looked at each other, said "Bob" and laughed.
A lesson from my 18 year old son, Julian
Posted April 14th, 2007 by BernitaAs I have been learning the Law Of Attraction over of the last couple of years and have kept it under my hat for the most part. The people close to me have always thought I had weird ideas. I don't know what gave them that idea...giggle!
Now that I'm more comfortable and know more about LOA I'm speaking out. Especially, to my children, now teenagers and they think I'm off my rocker. They say "right mom, we create our own lives, sure".....at first this was frustrating. Then I realized I would have to teach by example.
This was difficult when I saw my son, Julian creating some things in his life that was making him very unhappy, his 1963 volkswagon beetle has been in the autobody shop for nearly 9 months and not getting worked on, his saxaphone was stolen and then was let go of his part-time job.....you know as parents we don't want to see our children hurt.
I started preaching about how we create our own experiences and he didn't want to hear it. He even yelled, "I don't believe in that stuff"....what was I thinking.... HONK! HONK!... get out of the way mom. I tried real hard to walk away from it.
I told him he would need to go look for anther job...show the universe he meant business......He did nothing for weeks. Although I did get him to write a list of some of the things he wanted.
It seamed the more I inquired about his search the less he did. I started to lose my senses when it came to him. I was definetly beating my head against a brick wall.... OUCH!!! I finally backed off all together, an inspired action :)
I asked him to sit and watch the secret with me one day when he seamed in a good mood and he agreed. Just the fact he was willing to watch it was a uni-wink for me.
It hadn't been two weeks since we watched the movie and I asked him if he was going to start looking for work. I just couldn't stay outof it. He replies with, " I'm going to get that job at the Clarmonte Hotel. You don't have much faith in that Law of Attraction do you". I damn near fell over and certainly couldn't think of anything to come back with. I thought OMG! maybe something sunk in. And yeh...why wasn't I trusting in the universe to pull this off.
This last weekend he informed me they started working on his car, YES! YES! and today he was hired at the Clarmonte Hotel. I said to him, "do you realize you created this"? He responded with a big grin on his face and said, "I just focused"
Later I found his list of wants tacked to the wall next to his computer. I believe he has put two and two together and I moved out of his way.
I realized I have no control over what my children create for themselves and that sometimes as a parent I have to step out of they're way. They have to discover what they don't want in order to know what they do want and in this instance he was open to discover a new way of thinking to get different results.
I love how this works.....
Namaste,
Bernita
Reading From a Psychic
Posted April 2nd, 2007 by BernitaI love having a Psychic reading about once a year. I have been seeing the same woman for about 7 years and was starting to feel like I wanted a new perspective on things and so, I left it at that.
Here recently, I was talking to my friend Julie Coombs and thought I might be interested in talking to a woman named Kandace, who was a Psychic and was considered really good. I told Julie I would give her a call.
Some time had passed and I hadn't gotten around to call Kandace and out of the blue I get a message from her on Skype. Oohh! that was weird, not really. We started messaging back and forth and I got a knudge to just call her so, I did. I wasn't expecting a reading from her at that momment just to discuss some things about our websites.
It was only a few minutes into talking with her that she started telling me things that were going on in my life. She said " I just say it when it comes to me. I can't hold it back". Well then lets do a reading. She blew my hair back with the things she was telling me..... Her accuracy was astounding with the things that were presently going on in my life.
She made suggestions...she was even very firm about my move to North Carolina would not be necessary and that Darrel would be moving to California. That brought Darrel and I back around full circle. We first talked about him wanting to come back to the West Coast. It brought up some stuff, so we decided I would move to NC. Just to let you know, things are already in motion for Darrel's return to the West Coast :) YES!
We talked about other areas in my life and she validated many things I was already thinking about doing and gave a couple Nays! to some others. Trust me it was all making sense as the conversation continued to unfold.
It is not often to find someone so intuitive and preciese during a reading as Kandace was. I look forward to working more with her in the future.
I highly recommend Kandace when you need some assistance in getting clear about the bigger picure. Just tell her Bernita sent you.
Namaste,
Bernita
Is doubt getting in the way of your creations?
Posted March 5th, 2007 by BernitaYou've figured out what you want, money, health, love etc.... You have written it down and have gotten into a really good feeling place. All of a sudden those thoughts of doubt start seeping in. You start wondering if this Law of Attraction stuff really works....Where's my stuff?
Well, doubt really slows down the process of attracting what you want and can eliminates it all together. What eliminates doubt is evidence. Evidence of things big or small that you are starting to attract into your life. Observe and celebrate what is coming to you and document it.
This is what I do. I have a nice journal and I write down everything that I recieve that I wanted. It could be a call from a friend, who I had just been thinking about. A certain amount of money I wanted to make in a day and did. Write down every single thing no matter how small. Then after a few days or week review what you have written and witness all of abundance you are creating.
This is really fun to do and will provide you with the evidence you need to release doubt in your ability to create the life of your dreams.
Namaste,
Bernita
LOA at Work
Posted January 22nd, 2007 by BernitaThere is no doubt this website was conciously created using the Law of Attraction.
I had been wanting to start an online business. I knew I would need a website and had no clue where to begin. I signed up for a program that was going to take me step-by-step to build a site and get a business going.
When it came time to begin learning to build a website I froze. I EFT'd on it and put out the intent that the right people come along and assist me.
Four weeks had passed since I set my intention. I was on the Powerful Intentions forum reading some of my favorite blogs and decided to email one of the members because she had been doing some neat things. I visited her new website and was inspired.
A few days later I was on a call with my friend and coach Julie Coombs from Canada and we were talking about online businesses and websites which she also designs. She asked me if I knew Tracy Swartz from the PI forum...lol..I'm like OMG I have been emailing her. Julie told me she had helped Tracy get her new site going and could do the same for me.
Did it just fall into my lap? YOU BETCHA. How perfect was that?
Namaste,
Bernita
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